To all the men I’ve dated before…

Have you seen that movie ‘’To all the boys I’ve loved before’’?

The writing bug 🐛

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I think it was something like that. It has made me think of all the men in my life that have shaped the way I’ve grown in this area…by that I mean, the love interest, BFF type of thing. You see for me one’s partner in crime and life should be one and the same. I’ve even had friends/acquaintances tell me this is wrong, because they make your partner see too much of you, and some things are better kept separate. To that, I say pish posh.

Well, this is to all the men I’ve dated. They have helped me know myself better, like myself more, and work at myself to the point that I was happy alone. You see, it’s always better to end up being happy with oneself before you find someone to share your life with. I’m derailing again, that is one special talent of mine. Well, this is a bit about all the highlights of men I’ve dated. That is before I met my one.

Like Heidi K. Isern said in one article ‘’If we stop searching for what we should get in a relationship maybe we’ll start to pay attention to what we can give.’’ Before all of this realization, the men I’ve dated before had to take place.

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The writing bug 🐛

Normal person likes to read, sleep. And as of lately to write alongside my husband in here. Must bring your whole self to the table if you want to thrive today.