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Dating Advice You Need to Hear
Don’t laugh at just anything, or anyone!
Date a person who makes you laugh.
This is on the ‘’how to’’ book every teenage girl has read to find out about dating. And no laughing at everything or anything the person of interest to you said, is not a way to make yourself more attractive to them.
You see, I’ve done that, and it leave you drained, and it might work to some degree. But it is all shallow, and it has no substance on the long term.
So find someone that genuinely makes you laugh with your heart and mind. Having the same type of humour is so important, and it can’t be faked.
Plus, it gets a little weird if you keep laughing at everything someone says.
Don’t act like a private eye.
Don’t keep drilling them with questions, upon questions. Instead, share what makes you passionate, too. Make them feel special, and let them guide the date. It will all flow naturally, if it is meant to be.
So scaring them with the private eye questions, is not a hot move.
Dating my utterly understanding husband, has opened my eye in to dating. He told me that the way I would listen to him at the beginning of us dating, has made him so relaxed.
